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    Our one year old grandson will not sleep in a crib. He insits on sleeping in his parents bed. He is very strong willed and has been known to cry for hours when placed in his crib. Is it too late to break him of this habit?

    We would like to care for him overnight but can not allow him to sleep in our bed.

    With thanks
    MOM DAD GRANDMA GRANDPA

    A:

    Any toddler should be able to learn to put themself to sleep in their own
    bed; it just may take some persistence.

    The general principle is to set up a several step routine that is the same
    every night- a bath, a story, brushing the teeth, etc and then bed time.
    Most people then recommend tucking the child into bed, and leaving the room
    (with a nightlight on). Return every ten minutes or so to check on the
    toddler. At that time, summarily pat him on the back and acknowledge him,
    and then leave again. This may go on for quite some time, but is important
    not to give in. after a few nights of the routine, it should start to get
    easier, as the child learns that you are not going to give in.

    It is important that ALL caregivers have the same rules. Otherwise the
    child will exploit this weakness and you will not succede.

    For a further discussion, please consider an office appointment at Rainbow
    Pediatrics.

    - Updated: May 18, 2001

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